Sunday, May 24, 2015

Can 'Nimbu-Mirchi' Save You From Evil Eyes?


India has a wide range of cultural beliefs and traditions that are carried generation to generation. We also have the quick remedies for all ailments, like how to expel fear, common cold & cough problems and frighten evil spirits. The evil eye warder also known as ‘Nazar Battu’ is used to keep houses, offices and businesses safe from all the evil spirits. This Battu or the ‘Nimbu-Mirchi  Totka’ as it is called, traditionally has ‘seven mirchis’ (chilies) and ‘one nimbu’ (lemon) to protect your house from all the bad spirits.


What does ‘Nimbu-Mirchi’ mean for you? A cultural belief, a superstition or nothing! But for most of the people, it is still more than a belief and simply an act to divert mis-happenings. In my neighborhood, an auntie was also the stern believer of ‘Nimbu-Mirchi’ and its positive effects. But one day something happened that changed her way of seeing it completely.

Every Saturday, a guy used to come to dangle a set of ‘Nimbu-Mirchi’ on the main door of my auntie’s house. Few days back, auntie was told by another lady that the ‘Nimbu-Mirchi’ guy is cheating on her as he takes more money from the auntie than her. Moreover that guy took money from auntie’s husband in her absence and later he also took money from auntie at the end of the month. She was upset with his dishonesty and decided to take his class. And then on next Saturday, he came. Auntie chided him badly. But instead of accepting his mistake, he misbehaved and left the place by saying not to come again. And he disappeared for the next 2 weeks. In the meanwhile, auntie got to know that he didn’t even come to another lady’s home to dangle the ‘Nimbu-Mirchi’. Now she got confused that why he stopped coming even at their home.

Finally on third Saturday, he came and started apologizing for his cheating and misconduct. He also agreed to charge the same from her and not to repeat any mistake again. This sudden change made auntie perplexed. Then she saw him injured and unable to walk properly. When she inquired, he told her that after that day’s ruckus, when he was going back to his work by his bicycle, he met with an accident. His bicycle got damaged completely and he too got injured in that accident. It took him two weeks to recover. Since then he was repenting on what he did.

A bicycle full of at least hundred sets of ‘Nimbu-Mirchi’ couldn’t save his owner from the accident. Well, it’s always your deeds that makes you or breaks you. Anything done with a bad intention can never bring good luck, wealth and peace. Goodness and honesty are the only ‘totkas’ that can invite happiness and luck. Else can only bring bad luck sooner or later. So it is always righty said that do good and leave everything on God. He will surely save you from all evils. 

Sunday, May 17, 2015

How to Rock with Black in Summers


Girls, if Black is the lead hero in your wardrobe even in the blazing summer heat, then don’t worry, you’re just like me! I too love to go all Black wherever and whenever it’s possible. But hello wait, if you think that Black is not the colour for summers and it just plays a guest role in your springy ensemble, then let me tell how to play with this bold and very elegant colour to jazz up your summer look. Here are the 6 easy ways to include this darkest hue into your attire and appearance:-






1. Eyeliner- Putting a fuller-thicker layer of “kajal” into your eyes is a strict no-no in summers! That will surely help you in winning an intellect look but it’s not apt for summers. A Black eyeliner is something that will go well with all your springy dresses. It can be subdued for office, with a thin line close to the lashes, or as glam as you want for clubbing. You can also enhance your lower lids with a thin layer of kohl pencil for an instant smoky look or leave the lower lids bare to make your eyes appear wider.

2. Skirt- Be it short, long or knee length, a Black skirt in summers will always leave everyone stunned.  Team it up with your floral shirts, sleeveless tees or crop tops to create an instant magic. When selecting your Black summer skirt, keep the material light and airy. Complete your overall look with a pair of cool flats or sexy heels.

3. Leggings- A list of Black fashion staples would be lacking without a pair of Black leggings. Every girl should have it in her closet. It’s not just a layer to wear underneath a long tunic or dress, it’s more than that! This versatile piece of clothing is perfect for all your summers’ outfits. Team it up with your long shirts or short dresses for a fresh and casual look. This amazing creation will also save your legs from the scorching heat of summers and tanning.

4. Sling Bag- When it’s summer, it should be sling! Black bags will always be ‘in’ because they match well with literally everything. Remember a sling bag will set you free. No need to hold anything in your hands and roam around freely in summers. Try a small, clutch-sized handbag but for a night out. Make sure you add a solid black bag in your collection.

5. Footwear- Whether you’re into flats, bellarinas, flip-flops, peep-toes, wedges or stilettos, the colour Black is reliable enough to carry with any outfit. For casual outing, choose flats or ballerinas and for party/official look, put your best foot forward with heels. Black colour will blend well with all of your attires.

6. Jewelry- Black jewelry makes a great statement when paired with almost anything to everything. For a classy look, add a collar necklace comprised of black stones to a white or cream coloured blouse or a dress. Black stones make great earrings, as well, and can be dressy enough to wear with your Black dress for clubbing.

So, keep these suggestions in your mind to rock with Black as your wardrobe staple in summers. Don’t forget to stick to Black for a chic head-to-toe look and spice up your summers’ style.